Podcasts

1. Servant Leaders Invite Feedback; Authoritarian Leaders Resist It

Dr. Rock contrasts authoritarian and servant leadership styles, noting that authoritarian leaders typically avoid feedback to protect their status and maintain control. In contrast, servant leaders model humility and growth by actively inviting feedback and sharing their own learning process, creating a more open and development-focused culture.

2. The Mindset Behind Feedback Matters

There’s a clear link between fixed versus growth mindset and one’s openness to feedback. People with a fixed mindset focus on looking smart rather than improving, making them resistant to feedback. A growth mindset shifts the emphasis to learning and development, which is essential for creating a feedback-rich environment.

3. Feedback Fails Without Psychological Safety

Feedback requires complex cognitive work (mental contrasting), which is difficult under threat. When people feel judged or pressured, their cognitive resources drop, making it harder to process and apply feedback. Mandating feedback or focusing solely on candor doesn’t work—creating a low-threat, high-autonomy environment is key.

4. Asking for Feedback Cuts Stress in Half

Their research found that when people ask for feedback rather than receive it unsolicited, the stress response is cut in half—for both giver and receiver. This simple shift transforms feedback from a threat into a choice, restoring autonomy and making it more psychologically manageable.

5. Building a Culture of Asking Starts at the Top

Lasting change starts with senior leaders. The most effective strategy is getting a large group of leaders to experience the power of asking well for feedback—specifically and respectfully. When leaders model this behavior, it creates a ripple effect throughout the organization. It becomes a habit, not a mandate.